A man don open mouth complain say the birthday packs wey one pikin carry come share for school too much. According to am, the pack no just get normal small things like sweets or small toys, but e get all the kind expensive things wey fit confuse any small pikin. Na serious wahala, because instead of happy birthday, e dey make pikin start to compare, “I go need do this for my next birthday too!” Na pure competition!
The man talk say him no fit understand why some parents go dey show off with birthday packs like say na national competition. E talk say some parents go buy gadgets, fancy sweets, and even expensive toys wey no dey common. Na this kind show-off dey cause pressure for other parents wey no get such money to compete with.
He also talk say this kinda competition no good for the children. Instead of them to focus on learning and enjoying their childhood, dem go dey think about who get the biggest or most expensive gift. All these high-cost packs dey add stress on the pikin and parents alike. Gbas Gbos level go dey high if we no take time!
Birthday Packs: Parents Too Busy To Manage Expectations, Nah The Real Issue
Birthday Packs: The man also explain say na the parents dey cause the wahala. Them no dey think about the kind pressure wey they put on other parents to compete. He talk say most parents no even fit handle the cost of these excessive birthday packs but them still go follow the trend because they no wan look like them no fit provide for their pikin.
One funny thing wey the man talk be say some parents go borrow money to buy these fancy packs just to make sure their pikin no feel left out. He even laugh say “if you no get big cake, pikin no go gimme birthday hug again!” Na serious thing!
At the end of the day, the competition go pass from pikin to pikin, then to parents, and e go turn a constant circle. The real issue be say many parents dey forget say children need love and attention, not things wey go confuse them later in life. E no be about who gets the biggest pack but who gets the best care and attention.
How To End This Birthday Pack Competition Once and For All
Birthday Packs: To solve this problem, the man suggest say parents suppose come together and set rules on what to give children for their birthdays in school. If everyone agree say we go keep am simple, then e go reduce the pressure and stress. For example, make parents agree on a budget or just share small simple packs that go still make children happy without causing any fight.
E also recommend say, instead of spending money on expensive things, make parents use the birthday celebration to teach children the value of sharing. If children dey learn how to share small things, they go grow up knowing say life no be about who gets the most but about how we fit take care of each other.
At the end, the man talk say, “Na love we need, no be the big packs.” If every parent fit put more focus on giving the children love and care instead of worrying about who dey win the birthday pack competition, life go easy for everybody. The real birthday gift na the memories wey children go carry with them, not the things wey dem go throw away after one week!
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