I’d Rather Be a Co-Wife Than a Man’s Side Chick” — Lolo Defends Polygamy as the More Honest Choice

Media personality Lolo has set social media abuzz after declaring that she would prefer to be a co-wife rather than a man’s secret lover. In a candid discussion, Lolo emphasized that transparency and fairness are more valuable in relationships than deceit, arguing that polygamy, though controversial, at least allows all parties to be aware of their positions.

Speaking during a panel conversation, she said, “I would rather a man be openly polygamous than for him to be married and have a side chick. That’s the one I would not contend with.” According to her, being a co-wife ensures equality and honesty, unlike situations where a man hides an affair behind his wife’s back.

Lolo further noted that if a man truly loves more than one woman, he should be bold enough to take responsibility for his choices. “When we are co-wives together, the same rules apply. If he goes to the first wife, the second wife will have her turn. So, everybody should come to the harem — at least, we’ll all share the same experience,” she added.

Bimbo Akintola Traces the Root of ‘Side Chick Culture’ to Loveless Marriages

Veteran Nollywood actress Bimbo Akintola offered a contrasting perspective on the debate, tracing the origin of “side chick culture” to societal expectations that forced men into marriages of convenience rather than love. According to her, many men married women who were considered “wife material” instead of the ones they truly cared about.

“They didn’t marry who they loved; they married who was best for them,” Bimbo Akintola explained. “Somewhere along the line, they found who they truly loved, and that’s how side chick culture started.” Her insight shed light on the emotional and cultural dynamics that have shaped relationships in modern society.

Bimbo Akintola’s comments have resonated with many who believe societal pressures and moral expectations often push individuals into relationships that lack genuine emotional connection. She emphasized that honesty and emotional maturity should be the foundation of any relationship, whether monogamous or polygamous.

The conversation between Lolo and Bimbo Akintola has sparked heated debates online, with Nigerians taking sides on what constitutes honesty and morality in relationships. While some agreed with Lolo that openness in polygamy is better than deceit, others argued that the practice itself promotes inequality and emotional instability.

Several fans praised Lolo for speaking boldly on a topic many avoid. “At least she’s being real. Most men cheat in silence. Let’s normalize honesty,” one user commented. Others, however, criticized her statement, arguing that normalizing polygamy could encourage infidelity instead of solving it.

Meanwhile, Akintola’s remarks also gained traction, with fans commending her psychological perspective on the issue. The conversation continues to dominate online discussions, highlighting how evolving relationship values are reshaping public discourse in Nigeria’s entertainment space.